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November 10, 2015

How a Woman’s Clothing Impacts a Man Part II

November 10, 2015 | By | 10 Comments

Every man in the room watched her walk past.  She had legs that reached the ceiling, weave that touched the floor, heels about 3 ½  inches high, and a mini dress that hugged her frame like saran wrap.  Something in me cringed because two of the men with their eyes fixated on this women were married.

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August 31, 2015

Pursuing Your Daddy When He Doesn’t Pursue You Back

August 31, 2015 | By | 16 Comments

Recently, a young reader asked me about contacting her father.  She questioned whether it would be a good idea since she had never met him.  Tucked within the subtext of her inquiry was the fear that reaching out to her dad could be more painful than not reaching at all.  

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July 20, 2015

Diary of a Dysfunctional Diva

July 20, 2015 | By | 10 Comments

Hair?

 Check.

Shoes?

Check.

Dress?

Check.

My look was complete, but there was one problem.

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June 29, 2015

4 Lessons Learned From Jesus and the Prostitute

June 29, 2015 | By | 12 Comments

As much as I hate to admit it, I’ve been judgmental. I have formed opinions about women based on their clothes, amount of skin revealed,  number of tattoos, you name it; I’ve judged it.  It sounds bad coming from a professed Christian, but the subject matter compels me to be painfully honest.

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June 28, 2015

Why You Shouldn’t Give Him A Piece of Your Mind

June 28, 2015 | By | 16 Comments

As a woman obsessed  with happy endings, I held onto a fantasy father I was never destined to have.  He was an imaginary mix of TV dads from the 80s I wanted to magically manifest into my earthly father. It was foolish to expect my dad to be someone else, but I did for much of our relationship.

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February 15, 2015

7 Reasons Why a Sex Act Won’t Soothe a Love Ache: Part III

February 15, 2015 | By | 3 Comments

7 Reasons Why a Sex Act Won’t Soothe a Love Ache:  Part: I

7 Reasons Why a Sex Act Won’t Soothe a Love Ache:  Part: II

Like many, I learned about sex from friends, TV, movies, and Saturday night slow jams.  To say my perspective was skewed is an understatement.  I knew about the physical but it took me years to understand God’s original design for sex.

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February 1, 2015

7 Reasons Why a Sex Act Won’t Soothe a Love Ache: Part I

February 1, 2015 | By | 16 Comments

“I’m not going to stop having sex,” a friend said confidently.  She, being a sexually active female with a don’t-challenge-me-on-this-issue-attitude.  And in that moment, I realized the much needed pedicure and estrogen connection had taken a detour we would not easily rebound from.

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