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April 17, 2017

To the Woman With Father Wounds

April 17, 2017 | By | 8 Comments

I was wasting time on Facebook when my emotions made an unannounced visit.  Out of nowhere they instigated the worst ugly cry of 2017.  There I was, innocently scrolling through images when I stumbled across an article about Simone Biles and Sasha Farber’s waltz to You’re A Good Good Father on Dancing with the Stars.

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April 10, 2017

What To Do When God is Silent

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As much as I hate to admit it, I have trust issues.  Showing up at the most undesirable times, they’ve caused me to question my friends, my spouse, and even GPS.  Generally, I’m okay as long as there is some form of communication, but it’s in the silence when I start to lose it.

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December 20, 2016

When Life Is Unresolved

December 20, 2016 | By | 8 Comments

I just love closure. Don’t you?

The End of an Argument

A Paid Off Bill

A Happy Ending

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December 16, 2016

Following God When It Doesn’t Make Sense

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In this live stream hangout I discusses the difficult topic of “Following God When it Doesn’t Make Sense” with Maya Dawson.  Maya candidly shares her tug of war with God after loosing her mother and father in a two year period and then battling cancer. Read More

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August 23, 2016

4 Reasons Why Men Don’t Father Part III

August 23, 2016 | By | 8 Comments

“I handed him the divorce papers and he just signed them,” she said.  “He didn’t even fight for me.”  With tremendous disappointment my friend questioned the behavior of her ex but I understood his actions with laser sharp clarity.

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August 14, 2016

4 Reasons Why Men Don’t Father (Part II)

August 14, 2016 | By | 4 Comments

“I hate him,” a reader said to me as she described her father.  She went on to say, “I don’t forgive him for abandoning me and making me feel neglected. . . I do not forgive him for forgetting he had a child and moving on with his life.  I can’t forgive him.”

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August 8, 2016

4 Reasons Why Men Don’t Father (Part I)

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It’s hard to imagine why a man would not father his child.  I can still remember the Cheshire cat grin that spanned the width of my husband’s face when he found out we were pregnant with our first child.  I have watched this same excitement dictate his engagement in the lives of our boys.

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July 11, 2016

5 Questions White & Black People Must Ask

July 11, 2016 | By | 6 Comments

Up until about 5 years ago everyone in my immediate circle was of the same race. I graduated from a historically black college, went to work in an all black elementary school, attended a predominantly black church, and had no white friends or associates.   My life was segregated, safe and familiar.

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July 3, 2016

Digging Deeper Episode 2B: God, Satan, Daddies, & Daughters

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Exposing the Root Cause of Daddy Wounds

3 Things to Remember in Uncertain Times

How Fathers Affect Our View of God

 

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July 3, 2016

4 Ways to Overcome Unforgiveness

July 3, 2016 | By | 10 Comments

Have you ever forgiven someone only to see unforgiveness ram its ugly head back into your heart and mind?  I  have – more than I care to admit.  In fact I have some bad news; forgiveness is more of a journey rather than a destination.  

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